Please Pray For My Sonby Melissa J | More from this Blogger 11 Aug 2006 11:08 AM This might be an unusual blog, but it's a desperate plea from a mom who doesn't know what else to do. I need prayer for my son right now. Whatever you might be doing, I humbly ask you to pray. My son is 5 years old. He was adopted. He has anxiety issues, explosiveness, and impulse control issues. Last year we dealt with a cycling of out of control behaviors. We got him into see his pediatrician, a psychologist and a psychiatrist. Childhood bipolar has thus far been ruled out. ADD has not. My son shows signs of fetal drug effects as the result of his methamphetamine exposure while in his birth mother's womb. While in therapy, we learned how to do a safe-hold to keep our son safe, as well as others around him when he was out of control and violent toward his dad or me. For the past 7 months he had been doing so well! Recently, about a week and a half ago, he has started the out of control behavior again. Like any mom, I find myself making excuses for his behavior. Some of these excuses are legitimate. The last three days though, I've been beside myself. He has been name calling, spitting, hitting... He is very short fused. We have met with extended birth family recently for the first time which could feel awkward for him. Regardless of the reason behind it, my son needs prayer. I fear for his future with such outbursts and defiant behavior. I love him so much and I ache as I write this. My son has so many wonderful qualities when he has self control. He is funny, smart, loving, considerate... I just don't want anyone to think I'm just ragging on him or feel like he's a hopeless cause. He is not! Would you please pray for the Holy Spirit to give my husband and me wisdom on how to handle this? Please pray that my son will understand his negative behaviors and why it's not okay to have them? I want him to know that Jesus loves him and wants to help him. I thank you so much for taking the time to do this for us. May your day be blessed. Relevantchristian tags User Comments Brandie (1720) 11 Aug 2006 11:22 AMMJ, (((((hugs))))) as you go through this difficult time with your son. I'm so sorry and will pray for him and your family right now.  Jody Moreen (3274) 11 Aug 2006 12:16 PMLord we lift up this precious son of MJ into your tender arms and care. We pray that you would embrace this family with your tender Shepherd's love and care. Lead them this day, this hour beside your still waters of peace and rest. Calm the inner storms that rage and threaten to erupt at any time. We know that this battle can be emotionally and physically exhausting day after day. And this family is striving to love this child in your name and find him proper resources and care so that He may grow strong physically, mentally and emotionally. God of all comfort and wisdom, we ask that you would intercede and make a way in this desert and show them the way. You are sovereign over all and we know that you can do all things for nothing is too hard for you. We thank and praise you for MJ and this family who loves children in your name. Bless them and blanket them with your protective hand. Shower them with hope and blessings and give them an extra measure of strength so they may carry on. We stand on tiptoe in anticipation for what you will do and how you will reveal your presence and loving care. In Jesus precious name, Amen. Jody Moreen, adoptee Editor, Adoption Blessings Journal rollercoaster (63) 11 Aug 2006 12:37 PMI wish you the best of luck with your son. My heart goes out to you and I do not think you are ragging on him. Parenthood is a very difficult job. I believe the hardest job there is. Obviously both you and your husband are very caring, loving and compassionate to adopt this child and you should be very proud of yourselves.  Melissa J (13710) 11 Aug 2006 01:28 PMI accidently "overdosed my son" on Methylin. I called the dr just to let her know what happened. Turns out the dose he was prescribed prior was a placebo dose and the amount I "overdosed" him on was a super low dose that was enough to be effective. Of all things to happen shortly after the release of this blog! I am rejoicing at this past three hours of calmness and clarity and pray this is all it is--that it's not just coincidental. Continued prayers appreciated. I want to thank Lisa P. for quickly publishing this blog. I believe the prayers here have been heard. Thank you everyone!! God is so good!  Lisa P (24013) 11 Aug 2006 03:14 PMWe pray so much for big things, and they take time, but God can calm a soul in a moment. Peace be with you! Grammi58 (396) 13 Aug 2006 09:11 AMMJ-I'll be praying for your son. I wish there is something that I can say to you to put your mind at ease. He(& you) will always be in my prayers.  Brownie (1011) 13 Aug 2006 12:33 PMGod bless you and your little son. What a difficult time... but my prayers will be with you, and my family's. Poor little soul, hold him close... and take good care of yourself whenever you can! Community Tags adoption, families, faith, Kids, parenting, RAD, state adoption Discuss this article
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