Mormons and Divorce – Part Three: When Sin is Not Involved

We spoke last time about reasons for divorce that involve sin on the part of either the husband or wife. Today I’d like to discuss marriages that fail not because of sin, but for other reasons. Most of the time, when a marriage fails and sin is not an issue, the couple cites “irreconcilable differences” on the divorce decree. This covers a broad spectrum of issues including money problems, sexual problems, no longer wanting to be married, and no longer seeing eye-to-eye on important issues. The good news is, most of these problems can be fixed, if both partners in … Continue reading

Do You Regret Your Divorce?

Recently I was driving down the road and took notice to a new duet song by Reba McIntire that referred to taking her children to meet her ex-husband every other weekend. Many couples likely follow this same routine. They pack up the children and head off to meet their ex-spouse for the every other weekend visit. However the story line of this song may be what sets it apart from the typical divorced couple. The two ex-mates that are meeting up to exchange the children are doubting the divorce. They long for one another and the meetings are awkward. This … Continue reading

Pamela Anderson Files for Divorce

Well, they said it would not last…wait that is what they said after her marriage to Kid Rock. And they were right! Well, they probably said it again after Pamela’s latest nuptials and again, they would be right because her quickly marriage to Rick Salomon did not last either. Yes, Pamela Anderson, always the bride, never the anniversary celebrator, has filed for divorce. This will be her second divorce in just a little over a year. Pamela told Ellen DeGeneres that she was engaged on a September 2007 airing of Ellen’s talk show. Her fiancé was Rick Salomon, who was … Continue reading

Those Three Little Words (that May Ruin Your Marriage)

Usually when we here someone mention “those three little words” we think of the words “I love you.” It is of course a beautiful sentiment that most people like to hear it often. However, it’s a different set of three little words that might just wreak havoc on your marriage. Those words are, “do it yourself.” Now, do it yourself doesn’t necessarily mean your marriage is over. If your hubby suddenly turns into DIY guy or your wife is seen walking through the garage with power tools and a pink tool belt, do not despair. You may still be able … Continue reading

It’s Not All About TomKat

You mean to tell me there are other things going on in the world of entertainment besides the Tom and Katie nuptials? Believe or not… yes. Now that Mr. and Mrs. TomKat have exchanged vows and are en route to the Maldives to enjoy their honeymoon one would think that we would have nothing to talk about here in the POP CULTURE blog. Not a chance. The wonderful world of celebrity keeps spinning and cranking out newsworthy events, despite much of the world’s paparazzi huddling en masse for a shot of the Cruise’s a half a world away from Hollywood. … Continue reading

Celebrating an Anniversary Soon?

Are you celebrating an anniversary soon? Looking for something to make an ideal anniversary gift? Anniversaries are hard for some couples – it can be hard to decide on what to give or to do. Plenty simply enjoy going out to dinner for the evening and seeing a movie and forgoing presents all together – and that’s okay too. The point is to enjoy your anniversary for the two of you. But if you enjoy giving the gift – and you’re looking for something a little new and original – here’s a few suggestions to mark the celebration of your … Continue reading

How to Not Fight

Who likes to fight? None of us. In fact, for all that I enjoy a good debate or a healthy exchange of differing opinions – I don’t like to fight. I really don’t like to fight with my husband. The majority of fights we have had – at least in my opinion – are largely due to a failure to communicate. Either one of us misunderstands or miscommunicates something and the other reacts and wee – we’re off to the races. A miscommunication can be as simple as indicating that you want to improve your job options. Maybe you want … Continue reading

Our Not So Irreconcilable Differences

Yesterday my husband and I celebrated our tenth anniversary. Over dinner he asked if it’s been everything I hoped it would be. My honest answer was, “Yes, and it gets better every year.” Trust me, we’ve had our differences, but my husband and I decided before we got married that divorce was not an option. When we made our vows to each other and to God, we entered into a covenant. No amount of “Irreconcilable differences” would tear us apart. As it turns out, most of our differences weren’t irreconcilable. When you are committed to somebody, you do whatever it … Continue reading

Kim and Kris Marry…No Wait, Divorce

I didn’t blog about the Kim Kardashian/Kris Humphries wedding because frankly, I don’t really care for people who became famous for no reason at all. Now some of her fans might say “But Libby, she is a successful reality star and business woman. Uh, no. Do something that shows some remote talent, then I will consider you famous. So, I refused to blog about the wedding, yet now I feel compelled by my love for Hollywood scandal to let you know I will blog about the divorce. Yes, that is right, I said “divorce.” After a brief 72 days (is … Continue reading

Yes, It’s More Celebrity Divorces

Another week, another slew of celebrity divorces. Okay, maybe not a slew, but two more celebrity couples are hitting the divorce court. I was surprised when Eva Longoria and Tony Parker announced they were separating. Have we ever seen a picture of these two where they weren’t smiling and looking all in love? Despite the photos of happiness, Longoria files for divorce last week from Parker, citing irreconcilable differences. Longoria is seeking spousal support. Wait, isn’t she like a television star? Oh, maybe she is seeking support because it appears that Parker was cheating on her. Longoria told her old … Continue reading